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3 Ways to Teach Empathy to Your Preschooler

Hey Parents, Teaching empathy is harder than it seems. Studies actually call empathy a skill and, as you may know already, it comes more easily to some than others. So what exactly is empathy? Empathy is defined as "the ability to understand and share the feelings of another." My favorite explanation is given by the one and only Brene Brown- Check it out below.. So now that we've defined what empathy is, we can start to practice it.  Because if there's one thing I know about having children, it's that it's nearly impossible to teach something well if you don't practice it yourself. Which leads me to my first point. Model it -  Yikes this is a challenging one! Being mindful that our children are watching most everything we do is important. They're watching you treat your waitress with kindness or ignoring your postal worker. They're learning from you picking up the trash outside the restaurant or leaving things for someone else to
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Prize Chart

Hi there! Within the first few weeks of being home it was obvious I needed to implement some sort of behavior chart for my boys. I did some research and found one online that I modified to what works for our little family. I wanted to share this with you today because it's been so helpful and it will for sure be something we continue doing. What I love about this chart is that it encourages good behavior but also teaches them to do the right thing in a way that's more at their level. My favorite thing about it though is that it also teaches my boys that we're all learning and that we can try again or start over when we're struggling. I think I like that because that's a life lesson I'm learning too. God's mercies are new every morning.

Some Encouragement

Happy Friday! It made my heart so full to see you all on Wednesday. Your children are so precious to all of us on staff. However, supporting you as a parent has been on my heart since the day I started at CCP. That has only grown since our stay-at- home order. I am thinking and praying for all of you often, especially in this uniquely challenging season. As a preschool momma myself I'm feeling different waves of difficulty with each passing day. It seems like a lot of you are there too. Some days seem doable and others are so hard. Here are a few things that are helping me and my kiddos fell somewhat normal. Yay! Get dressed . okay, okay, hear me out here. I'm not saying get dressed up and put a full face of makeup on. I'm not even saying wear jeans all day. I am just really finding that getting myself and my kids out of sweats in the morning is helping us feel more motivated. Have a relaxed routine-  nothing crazy just some sort of predicability each day. Make

Help with Pencil Gripping

Happy Wednesday Parents!    Today  we are  talking about pencil gripping!  It is  an important part of development for your preschooler and something we teach often at Calvary Chapel Preschool. By the  time  your preschooler is 4 or 5 they usually start to  develop  a  tripod  grasp (3 finger) or  quadruped  grasp (4 finger). Amazingly, your child has been working on their fine motor skills since they were about 3 months old. Still, pencil gripping can be a challenge for a lot of preschoolers. Here are some ways to help those cute little fingers get more comfortable holding a pencil.    Practice Fine Motor Activities-  This will help  strengthen  their arms, hands and fingers for pencil gripping and handwriting. Some of my favorites are playdough activities and card lacing. Card lacing is also a GREAT quiet time activity.  Here are some fun card lacers on Amazon.  You can even get crafty and make some with a hole punch and card stock!   Pencil Grips-  T

God in Grief

Good Morning Parents! I have a few family members grieving an unexpected loss this week. As I was checking in with one of them, some things came up about God that I wanted to share with you. I think it's common with loss and grief to wonder where God is at in the midst of it all. Is he up in heaven sleeping? Is he unaware of the pain you're feeling? Did he choose not to act in your situation? Did he forget about you? I know from my own experience that it's easy to forget the character of God when everything around you feels dark and scary and God feels absent. As I was listening, I felt the Lord gently remind me "Don't listen to respond, listen to understand." It wasn't my job to fix or rush her emotions. It was time to listen, show empathy and if possible speak some life giving words into a devastating situation. It's no surprise that the most life-giving truths come from the giver of life itself.  I gently reminded her of something she already

Easy Rain Cloud Science Activity

Happy Wednesday Parents! I wanted to share a fun activity I did with my boys this morning. What you'll need: 2 glasses of water shaving cream droppers (or straws) blue food coloring What to do: Mix blue food coloring in one small glass of water put shaving cream on top of the other glass of water ask your preschooler to start dropping the blue water on top of the shaving cream After a few times, the blue water will seep through the shaving cream, just like rain!  Explain to your children that the shaving cream represents a cloud and the clear water represents air. As the blue water saturates the cloud it gets heavy and eventually can no longer hold the water, making "rain"!  My older preschooler Keegan loved this activity. He was so excited when the rain finally seeped through the cloud, he actually started jumping up and down! Everett ( my 3 year old) on the other hand, loved the shaving cream. Have fun!  Love, Miss K

Welcome Back & Book Review

Hi Parents!      How are you all doing?  I pray that you all are well and that you are finding some sort of beauty in this season. If I'm being honest, the combination of more family time and slowing down has helped me pinpoint some gaps in my parenting.      A few weeks ago, after a couple of challenging days with my little ones, I plopped into bed feeling that same old familiar feeling of tiredness mixed with unsettling. Did my children hold a secret meeting to plan ways to push my buttons? I pictured them in their super hero pjs writing their plan on a whiteboard while I thought they were sleeping. I laid in bed and started scrolling different articles, blogs and parenting websites for guidance.  I ended up ordering some books to help me with these cycles that I feel I get stuck in with my parenting.      Over Spring break I dove into No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind By Daniel J. Seigel and Tina P